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30 endearing ways to show love to your partner

30 endearing ways to show love to your partner

January 17, 2022

Wanting someone and that person loves you is, without a doubt, incredible . But relationships must be worked on every day, otherwise, what began as a beautiful romance, may end in heartbreak.

It can also happen that, over time, the relationship has cooled down, and your partner may notice that you are no longer watching him or her as before. Although this is normal, we must continue to show love to our boyfriend or girlfriend, since he has chosen us as his partner for the rest of his life.

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Ways to show love to your boyfriend / girlfriend

If you want to show your lover that you think is special to you and you really think that everything is in your life, below you can find a list of ways to show love.


1. First of all ... be your friend

Lasting relationships are those in which the members of the couple share hobbies, support each other and feel like friends. Do not forget to have fun by your side, either on a day-to-day basis or in sexual activity .

2. Make your partner a priority

This does not mean you should not go to work because your partner wants to spend some time with you . It is about taking into account that you are there and doing things together, living unforgettable moments. Nobody likes to be with someone who is at work all day and forgets that he has a partner or a family.

3. Negotiate instead of discussing

It is clear that you will not always agree, but in a relationship it is about finding balance. Sometimes your partner wins and other times you win. The key is to negotiate .


4. Leave a note of "I love you" before leaving home

It's 8 in the morning and you have to go to work. Your partner is still fixing, so take the opportunity to leave a love note right next to your keys. Surely you will start the day super happy.

5. Fly to Paris

There is no better way to spend a few days with your lover in the city of love. Enjoy Paris and its charming cafes, champagne, art and the Eiffel Tower with your partner. Take the opportunity to take a night walk along the Seine River and turn this trip into an unforgettable memory.

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6. Bring the breakfast to the (even if it is not every day)

It's not about being your partner's slave. But it's Sunday morning and the week has been exhausting for him or her ... why not have a detail? Bring your breakfast to bed and I'm sure that after that you'll love it a little more .


7. Make a "I love you" call without you expecting it

It's at your job, it's Monday morning. Make a call to tell him how much you care . Imagine how you will feel if you receive your call and say: "Honey! I'm just calling to tell you how much I love you and how important you are to me. I hope you have a nice Monday. "

8. A picnic day

Decide on any day, one that you both have time and go on a picnic with your partner . Whether it's to the beach or the mountain, the important thing is that you are together.

9. Send flowers one day any

Not all women are fond of receiving flowers, but this is a romantic detail. It does not need to be Valentine's Day or your birthday so you can give them a bouquet of flowers. Giving them away on any given day may pleasantly surprise you.

10. Recognize your achievements

Whether in school, at work or in the housework, the recognition of your hard work is something that you will appreciate a lot . Surely there is nobody who wants to impress more than you.

11. Communicate

Communicating is basic in any couple relationship, so communicate with your partner instead of just talking. It is necessary to avoid conflicts and, moreover, brings people closer .

12. Listen actively

We all need to be heard, but hearing is not the same as listening. Active listening is putting all the senses in the conversation.

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13. Excuse yourself when you're wrong

Your partner will appreciate that you apologize when you are wrong . We all make mistakes and conflicts are normal in the couple. Showing love is being humble and caring about the other person.

14. Trust your partner

Trusting the couple is an act of love. This is done for example, as it does not matter if you go out with your friends. Jealousy turns the relationship into toxic and ends with love.

15. Do not compare yourself with others

Your partner is unique and that's why you love her. Do not compare him to anyone (for example, an ex-partner) . If you still think of another person, you can hardly give yourself full.

16. Remind him that you are proud to have him

Your partner will be very happy that you remember how special it is for you and how lucky you are to have him by your side.

17. Give your space

Everyone needs their space to make the relationship work . This point is very close to giving confidence to the couple, and this is only possible when the relationship is not dependent.

18. Hug him

There is nothing more powerful and that transmits as much as a hug. Hug him as much as you can, especially after intimate relationships .

19. Kiss him

A hug is incredible, but if you also kiss him from the heart, the message is clear . So kiss, kiss and kiss and show love.

20. Practice tantric sex

If you really want to connect with your partner, practice tantric sex. This experience will make you connect with all the senses. If you want to know more about this practice, in our article: "7 exercises of tantric sex to get maximum pleasure" you will find a series of tips that can be very useful for you and your partner.

21. Always talk to him with respect

If it comes it is true that you can not agree on all opinions and that everyone has their own vision of the world, you should always be respectful with your partner . It is always better to be assertive than to impose your own opinions.

22. Show interest in your friends

We all choose who our friends are, so you better show interest and be respectful with your partner's friends . If you love him, he understands that his friends are special to him or her.

23. Find something that will amuse you

Look for activities where you have fun together , because in the end it is these moments that fill you. Whether it's salsa dancing, going to the gym or visiting museums, the important thing is that you have fun together.

24. Support him in the acquisition of his goals

Support your partner in achieving your goals and motivate you to move forward . For example, if you want to lose weight, you can help him eat healthy by buying healthy food.

25. Keep the flame of passion alive

If you take time together, keep the flame of passion from being extinguished. Be original and think of things that will benefit you both.

26. Go to the adventure

This time do not plan ... explore a place where neither of you have been. This can be going to spend a weekend or an afternoon at a local place.

27. Do something you want very much

Surprise him by doing something that you think your partner would like to do before she asks.

28. Plan another honeymoon

If you have children and it seems that the relationship is a little monotonous lately, take your partner to a small honeymoon . In this way you will revive what united you and you will become more united.

29. Share

Share your love, your fears, your responsibility . Make your partner your life. After all, you want it to be part of the rest of your life.

30. Understand your emotions

It is not always easy to put yourself in the other person's shoes, but make the effort to understand their feelings , even when you do not agree with your partner.


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