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Is love old ... or not? Science makes it clear

Is love old ... or not? Science makes it clear

May 6, 2021

Love is an extraordinary sensation that can make us go crazy . Have you ever wondered "what would our life be without this intense feeling?" And of course, love awakens our most intense emotions and the passion we can come to feel for someone can make us lose our mind.

Over the years, many studies have been conducted to learn more about this phenomenon. Some studies have provided very interesting data and others have shown surprising and even controversial results. Is love old? What is the best age to get married? A recent study seems to have found the right age to get married.


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Love and age: what is the best age to get married?

There are many factors that influence falling in love and romantic love (both biological and cultural), but ensuring the success of a marriage is more than just being in love. Many relationships end when the flame is still alive, and the breakup of the couple in those cases can be really hard.

In fact, this study did not analyze the ideal age to be in love, but rather the goal of the investigation was to know what is the perfect age to get married and thus reduce the likelihood of divorce . The Institute for Family Studies (IFS) conducted the investigation and revealed that the best age for marriage is between 28 and 32 years.


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What does this study say?

The study was led by Nicholas H. Wolfinger, a sociologist at the University of Utah (USA). For the analysis, he used data from the National Survey of Family Growth American between 2006-2010 and 2011-2013.

The results showed an inverted bell curve. So, the key point is at that age, that is, the 28 and 32 years .

As of this age, the probability of divorce increases again, and according to the research, 5 percent each year. So far, previous studies had concluded that the later the marriage was, the greater the likelihood of success existed.

According to Wolfinger: "Individuals who intend to get married after the 1940s may not be predisposed to do so, some tend to show problems in their interpersonal relationships and therefore decide to marry later. results of this research, that "even after establishing a control in the respondents regarding gender, race, family structure, age, education, religious tradition, as well as the size of the metropolitan area in which they live, the results persist" .


And ... the physical attractiveness is old?

As this study concludes, there seems to be a more propitious age to get married. But, with regard to physical attractiveness, does age influence? Well, it seems that yes .

In the case of women, how old are they for men? There is a popular belief that men like younger women, and that seems to confirm science. A group of Finnish researchers from the Åbo Akademi University, who carried out a study with more than 12,000 participants between 25 and 40 years of age, concludes that women over 28 are no longer attractive to men .

You may be interested in learning more about this research: "Women over 28 do not attract men, according to research"

And men, at what age are they more attractive? According to a study that was conducted in 2010 and was led by Fhionna Moore, a researcher at the University of Dundee in Scotland, Older men are more attractive, especially for economically independent women . The sample counted with more than 3,700 British subjects between 18 and 35.

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Who suffers the most in a breakup of a couple?

Of course, relationships are not easy , and the success of marriage, especially today, is not assured. The values ​​of society have changed and divorce is increasingly accepted. But what happens if the relationship ends? Who suffers more, men or women? This is what a group of researchers from Binghamton University tried to find out.

In collaboration with a group of University College London scientists, these academics asked 5,705 subjects of 96 nationalities what their level of pain was after the breakup of a couple on a scale of one to ten. The results showed that Females feel greater pain after the breakup of couple , because they scored higher on scales of physical and emotional pain. Now, these recover before the breakup of couple than men.

You can read this research in our post: "Women suffer more from the breakup of a couple but they recover better, according to the study"

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