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Seductive personality: 6 attractive strategies and traits

Seductive personality: 6 attractive strategies and traits

July 18, 2024

The seductive personality has great value in a society in which contacts and social relations are increasingly important. This is something that is quickly seen if we look at the advantages that people have with the ability to easily please others: a greater public projection, which means greater opportunities of all kinds.

We'll see now what are the basic characteristics of the seductive personality and what are the socialization strategies related to it.

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Seductive personality: its traits and strategies

Keep in mind that a personality trait is not something "fixed" that belongs to an individual.


In any case, it is a property that is expressed through behavior patterns during the day to day. Just like being a sports fan is not something that appears on a card, the seductive personality exists in the way in which certain people tend to relate to others .

That said, let's see what are the typical characteristics of the seductive personality.

1. Good control of non-verbal language

Seductive people express themselves with much more than words: they use all their resources to communicate with others the way they want. This includes, of course, non-verbal communication.

But this type of personality is not only characterized by using a range of nonverbal forms of expression varied and full of nuances . In addition, these gestures, postures and ways of singing the voice are simple learning, which do not involve much effort and are used spontaneously when interacting with others.


For example, even in an improvised situation, such as finding someone known on the street, a man or woman with this type of personality will know how to move their arms and hands in a manner consistent with what they say, instead of leaving their arms or arms immobile. keep them all the time tucked in their pockets as if that were an imposition.

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2. Tendency to extraversion

Seductive people tend to be extraverted, which means that they enjoy socially complex contexts in which they must participate, and they feel comfortable in that environment to the point where they seek to experience this kind of experience with some frequency.

The reason is that they do not feel anxious when talking with unknown or relatively unknown people, or when speaking in public, since they know they give a good image, and on the other hand these situations are exciting enough to be fun or interesting.


At the same time, this translates into a very recurrent strategy to gain power of seduction before others: publicly show this extraversion . For example, climbing to a high place at a party to give a short speech that everyone can hear (without anyone asking or the context would require it). This causes admiration, since it is seen as a desirable trait.

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3. Time control when presenting

The seductive personality is expressed in a very clear way in one of the most important moments of social interaction: the presentation. During this stage, which usually lasts a few seconds, these types of people know how to express their importance by controlling the times. Instead of showing up and moving quickly to something else , make this phase more leisurely than usual: they make the presentation have its mini-ceremony. For example, in an informal context they shake hands by means of a joke that allows to extend this moment a few seconds more.

The fact of having to wait longer causes the other person to internalize the message that their interlocutor is important enough to deserve that privilege, even if this is not true.

4. The absence of hesitation

One of the features that most seduces is self-confidence. Therefore, one of the strategies most used by seductive people is not to show doubts, sometimes even at times when it would be reasonable to have them. Somehow, they mask that decision making in a way that it seems that from the first moment it is clear what is to be done.

5. Physical proximity

Another characteristic of the seductive personality is that it plays with the proxemics, that is, the spaces that people keep between them.

To show self-confidence, it is possible that these people get closer than normal to others , without making this very uncomfortable, but in a way that makes it clear that you have the power of conversation (not in a hostile sense, in fact, it's a "soft" dominance in which the other can feel comfortable not having to decide much what course the conversation should take).

6. The search for consensus

The seductive personality is not based on superiority over the other at any price, as this would lead to intimidation. In any case, it seeks to be the engine of consensus that can occur in a dialogue or in a social interaction. That is why a conciliatory spirit is shown, trying to put emphasis on what one has in common with the people to whom the seduction is directed, and without highlighting the differences.


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