The powerful habit of choice in life
Everything in our life is based on elections . The elections can come given for many reasons, some of them are economic, for comfort, desires or feelings.
Whatever it is, it becomes an engine to move and move forward, whether we are wrong or not. Sometimes we move along a path that is not the easiest or in the right direction or that we had not thought of at first, but despite the difficulties we always find a moment to ask ourselves: How did I get here? How have I ended up in this job that I like so much? Who would have told me that I would end up with that person I had known for a long time?
The decisions we make are leading us to where we are now . However, what is really true and necessary is the movement, the change, the evolution of position, as it happens in chess.
A universe of decisions
These choices range from small things, like what we are going to eat today or what clothes we wear, to more relevant choices such as what we would like to work with, what we want to occupy our time on Sunday afternoons or who we want at our side. At a certain age there is a moment when you realize what makes you happy and in what you want to invest your energies. As we know, and as many Spanish sayings say, experiences have to be experienced in the first person to learn them.
As we have been told so many times, throughout our lives we will be experiencing hundreds of new, pleasant and / or unpleasant but always instructive things. Therefore, as sunsets are added to our vital calendar, we will acquire knowledge that will be added to our living library. Our brain tends to remember positive experiences and to "run a thick veil" to those memories or situations that have damaged us for some reason.
Stop and think for a moment about the people you have around you , if you are proud or proud that they are part of your day to day, month to month or year to year. As very well says Carlos Miguel Cortés, forever It is not a matter of time but of intensity. There are people who go through your life for a while and accompany you in thought all your life, instead, people that you have in your day to day that end up being diluted with the passage of time.
Therefore, you must think if the people you currently have in your life choose them to be there, if they enrich your experiences, if they bring you unforgettable moments, if they make you be in harmony or if when you need them you are revolutionized and They make your way of seeing things change for the better.
Choose to grow as people
At this point, we can say:I choose you, to be in my life. I choose you every day deliberately and freely, without ties. I choose you being aware that nothing is forever (or yes) and that someday you may not choose me. Simply knowing that you share your time with me because you care. I choose you because I feel that I want you to be part of my time and my experiences. I choose you because I think I can be a better person with this choice, with these companies that are with me over time. That's why I can tell you that the people who are in my life now, are not part of chance, each one of them is for some reason.
And you, consciously choose?