What is an orgy? 8 tips to practice it successfully and safely
Sexual relations are an important part of life as a couple, and studies claim that they influence the well-being of the couple. But some people, those with a conservative mentality, do not understand that you can enjoy sex with people with whom you do not have a love relationship.
However, in recent decades, beliefs about sex are increasingly liberal . Is it ok or wrong to have this mentality? Everyone can make their life what they want, and in this article we will not comment on anyone's sexual tastes.
In the following lines we enter and talk about a subject of somewhat controversial sexual content and, for many, even prohibitive: orgies.
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What is an orgy?
Surely in the mind some readers have appeared different prejudices when reading the title of this article. And it is not strange, because we live in a society that imposes a series of behaviors, also in the sexual sphere, and orgies are not precisely something that is socially accepted. Some people understand that an orgy is somewhat prohibitive, because they stick to a script and very rigid roles in relation to sexuality and sex.
An orgy is a kind of "sexual party," involving more than three individuals who have sex freely; that is, there is an exchange of sexual partners (not necessarily a loving couple). The orgy is a group sex type (heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual or lesbian) in which, generally, there are no restrictions. Unless there are explicit rules about it (for example, that some practitioner does not want to practice anal sex).
Difference between orgy and threesome
Orgy and trio are two terms that can be confused and that despite being similar are not equal . A trio is a sexual act in which three individuals participate, be they two women and one man, two men and one woman or three people of the same sex.
An orgy takes place when there are more than three participants in the sexual act and, in addition, there is an exchange of participants during the sexual evening. On the other hand, an orgy is not the same as group sex, since it can include other forms of sex such as dogging, a practice in which exhibitionists and peepers participate.
- If you want to know more about dogging, you can read our article "Dogging or" Cancaneo ": the new sexual practice of exhibitionists and peepers"
Tips to bring orgies
Although there are individuals who think that it is morally wrong to practice orgies, others decide to enjoy them. It is important that, when carrying out this type of practice, precautions are carried out and carried out safely.
Below you can find some tips to experience an orgy with safety and thus enjoy a successful sexual party.
1. Decide the rules before you start
If you want to enjoy a pleasant, explicit experience and explain the guidelines and limits of the orgy (or those imposed by some members). The rules may vary depending on the actors, but they must be clarified before starting so there are no misunderstandings.
2. Consider the effects of couple relationships
It can happen that the members of a couple decide to try new things and venture to experience trios or orgies, but Sometimes the idea you have is not the same as reality . It may happen that, for example, the self-esteem of a member is affected if the latter is not prepared for this experience, so it is necessary to consider the consequences of this type of action.
3. Use protection
Sex with strangers increases the risk of infections or sexually transmitted diseases , So whenever an orgy is practiced it must be done safely and take precautions. For example, use condoms.
4. Choose the guests well
Not everyone is willing to practice orgies and, sometimes, it is complicated to do it with close friends. However, there are websites on the internet designed to meet people for this type of practice and local liberals that it is possible to attend to meet people with this interest.
5. Hygiene of people and place
In addition to using protection, it is important to take care of the personal hygiene of the participants and also the hygiene of the place . It is recommended that people who participate in the orgy have showered in a period of time not too distant from the moment in which sexual intercourse takes place.
6. Atmosphere
The place to practice the orgy should be intimate and all participants should feel comfortable in it . It is not necessary that the place be luxurious, but it is possible to acclimate it to exalt the senses. A dim light, ambient music or aromatic candles can allow a greater sexual experience. It is important that it be a spacious place and where the participants can carry out their sexual fantasies.
7. Organization of the orgy
If you are the one organizing the orgy, make sure everything is well organized . An orgy does not only include sex, but it is a situation in which there can be conversations and it is possible to spend a relaxed and festive moment. Make sure everything is correct, that there is no lack of food, drink and, of course, condoms.
8. Use games
A good way to start the orgy is to use sex games. For example, Twister, Strip Poker or Bodypainting . The sexual games allow to spend a moment entertaining and fun.
- In our article "15 ideal sexual games to recover the passion of a couple" we give you some ideas.
Benefits of sex
Practicing sex is one of the healthiest activities that people can do, and it is extremely pleasant. When we have sex, as we explained in our article "What happens in our body and mind when we have sex?", Our brain is flooded with substances called endorphins, which make us feel good.
- Sex affects our day to day in a positive way. If you want to know what are the benefits of having sex, we invite you to read our article "The 13 benefits of having sex, according to science"
